Losing a loved one is never easy, death is a taboo subject and since none of us know what happens after we pass, it can bring up feelings of fear for our own mortality too. But death is a part of life, and while it’s sad, it’s something that we all have to come to terms with. One way to help cope if you’ve lost a loved one is to create a legacy for them, this is something that helps us to remember them. It can be a way to keep their memory alive and honor their life- here are some simple ideas to create a legacy for your loved ones.
Personalized Memorial
One of the most meaningful ways to honor someone is through a personalized memorial. It can be as simple as a small plaque, a garden stone, or even a bench in a park. You can choose a place that was special to your loved one, and write their name and a short message on it. That way people can see it and remember the good times shared with them. If you’re looking to place a plaque or memorial in a public place, email the council that owns the land and discuss the options with them. Often they deal with the engraving and fitting and you simply pay them a fee to have it done. If you’ve never done anything like this before, check out an expert memorial planning blog for more information.
Create a Memory Book
A memory book that can be shared with family and friends can be a great way to create a legacy for someone and remember them well into the future. Gather up photos, letters, and stories about your loved one and ask family and friends to share their favorite memories too. Put these together in a scrapbook or even go with a digital format. You can look at it whenever you miss them, and pass it down through the generations so children, grandchildren and great grandchildren can look through in future and know who this person was. This book will become a treasure that keeps their spirit alive for years to come.
Charitable Donations
Many people have causes they care deeply about, and you can honor your loved one by making a donation to a charity they loved. You could even organize a fundraising event in their memory. This could be a walk, run, or community event. It helps others while keeping your loved one’s values alive.
Plant a Tree or Garden
Planting a tree or creating a garden is another lovely way to honor someone. Choose their favorite flower or tree and plant it in your garden or a special place, again be sure to contact the council or whoever owns the land if it’s off your own property. It can act as a peaceful spot to reflect and remember them, and seeing it grow over time can be a wonderful thing to see.
Create a Tribute Video
Creating a tribute video is easier than ever with the tech we have these days. Find photos and video clips of your loved one and compile them into a short video, ask friends and family for pics and videos of the person and scour their own social media sites too. Add their favorite songs or a heartfelt messages from family and friends. Share this video at their funeral or on social media, it can bring comfort to many and keep their memory alive in a special way.
Start a Family Tradition
Consider starting a new family tradition in honor of your loved one. This could be a special dinner, an annual trip, or a day dedicated to doing something they loved. Every year, everyone can come together and remember the good times you all had while creating new memories too. Traditions really can help keep their spirit and memory alive.
